The Male 'Ideal'


Lately, i've experienced a lot of ups and down in what people deem to be the male 'ideal' in terms of appearance. Before, there was a certain majority who considered the 'ideal' to be the muscly, fit, lean, thin guy with the perfect hair, perfect smile and the biggest dick, but suddenly that seems to have changed. I'm not entirely sure if it has changed overall as a general liking, or if it's just within the people I spend most of my time with.

Far too many queens are out there are saying that the ‘male ideal’ is this or that, but i’ve noticed, what they say is the ‘ideal’ is usually what they’re fucking at the time and suddenly their ex, to who they devoted four loving months toward, is now no longer the 'ideal' and the complete embodiment of what a man should not be. It's very confusing.

So please, someone tell me, what are people considering to the be best looking male these days; Thin, fat, hairy, smooth, muscle, skinny, slim, chubby, twink, bear, femme, otter, jock, muscle bear? If you find out, could you please let me know?

The Magical Penis?

It baffles me, that even today there are men out there who think they are God’s gift to humanity and that they can rule over what they believe to be their ‘seconds’ - ‘seconds’ being someone who isn’t equal to them and they are, in fact, not to their level.

Recently i’ve been speaking to a guy on Scruff who, through his own ego and elitism, thought he could speak to me like a piece of shit because his dick was apparently bigger; this was informed by conversation and him sending endless pictures of his dick. He had convinced himself that, because his dick was a whole half an inch bigger than mine (going off the typical number size), he was ‘superior’ to me, that I wasn’t his equal and I was then below him in the ‘ranks of man’. It got me thinking, where did this group of gay guys come from? The ones that think the size of their dick dictates their level of masculinity and that they’re ‘higher’ than other people, like some kind of dick sucking monarchy.

I’m the first to admit that I have spoke about the size of mine and that i’m more than happy with it, but i’ve never once put myself above another for being bigger, nor have I ever felt lower than someone if mine wasn’t as big as theirs. So where has this guy come from? Did I miss out on some kind of super race that have a magical penis rulebook?

Has anyone else this kind of deluded superiority in the gay community?

Sunshine and Shadows

The light in town was wonderful today, so wonderful that I couldn't help but have a seat and just watch the shadows move with the clouds passing. The people sat next to me must have thought I was a weirdo, sat there doing nothing but watching the floor and taking pictures.

I do hope summer is full of days like today, because I really want to take a lot more photographs and get them online.

Queer Britain

What do you do when you're an out and proud gay man living in the UK with a pride event looming? Well, you deface the Union Flag with a pink triangle. The question is, do I coat it in glitter for added sassiness?

The UK, while it's being governed by absolute arses, is a pretty good place to be gay right now. We are legal, we have same sex marriage and even our Queen is (apparently) pro LGBTQ. For real, thought, I can't wait for pride and I hope everyone who has a pride event soon has a killer day!